"There is nothing more
spiritually powerful that you can do to improve a difficult relationship
with someone than to be non-judgmental and fully present with him or her,
right in
the moment."
John Kuypers
Every troubled marriage, rebellious teen, broken friendship
- every unhappiness in your life
is caused by people judging people. In turn, all judgments are caused
by disapproving of what's happening in the present moment compared to past
or future expectations.
2. John Kuypers interviewed on
The Root Cause
of Marriage Breakdown (3:20)
Jesus said, "Do not judge or you will be
judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged and
with the measure you use, it will be measured to you." To judge is
to disapprove. Judgments feel hurtful to others, and they in turn want
to hurt you back.
Non-judgment does NOT mean condoning or agreeing. It means
influencing with love, not condemnation. It is a
spiritual
path to wisdom, deep faith and clear life
purpose.
We offer
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present moment.
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Jesus' teachings on how to be wise, loving and
non-judgmental
in daily life.
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