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Parenting for most of us is our highest achievement. Our
children are our legacy, our gift to the world. We live forever
because of our children.
For some reason, they don't realize that! All they see
is you, standing in their way. They can be needy, irresponsible,
demanding, cranky...and lovable, adoring, loving, giving. Children are
God's gift to us as parents.
Parenting is like being the
boss. You have authority. How you use that authority, and
the way in which you make decisions and treat your children will have an
enormous influence on how they respond to you. If you can learn to
change the way you react to your children when they "trigger" you - annoy,
frustrate, upset, irritate - you will influence them in a major and
positive way. With love.
One present moment at a time.
You will
learn the two keys to serenity parenting in the present moment. The principles
is always
the same. How to focus on being present. How to make one of two wise choices that
positively influence your kids - not by forcing them nor by caving in to
them.
You learn two choices to lovingly
and impactfully change the way you parent your children. Are there
times you roll over when you should RESIST? Saying one thing, then
giving in because the hassle was just too much? That's a problem and
you're the one participating - cooperating - in the problem.
Are there times you dig in no
matter what? What would happen if you decided to SUPPORT what your
child wants? Do you think supporting equals rolling over? If so,
you're in for a big surprise. To support is to accept. To accept
is to love. Accepting is the single most powerful
instrument for motivating change in another person. Don't
just take my word for it. Read the
Paradoxical Theory of Change,
a summary of the work of the famed psychotherapist Dr. Fritz Perls, founder
of Gestalt Therapy.
When you accept another person, you make it safe for them
to change. They take down their emotional walls, and they stop seeing
the argument as an ego battle of wills over who's right and who's wrong.
It really works. But there's a catch.
You have to be real. That means REAL CHANGE by you.
Do you want to be a better parent enough to consider coaching?
That is the question that only you can answer. Would you
spend real money to learn how to make those changes?
Present
Living's Be You Coaching teaches you how to love your children so you
can be you and they can be who they are...with boundaries that help them
grow up successfully.
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