Parenting is a blend of tender love... and tough love

Parenting for most of us is our highest achievement.  Our children are our legacy, our gift to the world.  We live forever because we had children.  

For some reason, they don't realize that!  All they see is you, standing in their way.  They can be needy, irresponsible, demanding, cranky...and lovable, adoring, loving, giving.  Children are God's gift to us as parents.

Parenting is like being the boss.  You have authority.  How you use that authority, and the way in which you make decisions and treat your children will have an enormous influence on how they respond to you.  If you can learn to change the way you react to your children when they "trigger" you - annoy, frustrate, upset, irritate - you will influence them in a major and positive way.

With love.  One moment at a time.

I will teach you the two keys to leading in the present moment - just like I do with business leaders who have hundreds of employees.  The principles are the same.  How to focus on NOW.  How to make wise choices that positively influence your kids - not by forcing them nor by caving in to them.  You will learn two new choices - SUPPORT or RESIST. 

These two choices will lovingly and impactfully change the way you parent your children.  Are there times you roll over when you should RESIST?  Saying one thing, then giving in because the hassle was just too much?  That's a problem and you're the one participating - cooperating - in the problem.

Are there times you dig in no matter what?  What would happen if you decided to SUPPORT what your child wants?  Do you think supporting equals rolling over?  If so, you're in for a big surprise.  To support is to accept.  To accept is to love.  Accepting is the single most powerful instrument for motivating change in another person.   Don't just take my word for it.  Read the Paradoxical Theory of Change, a summary of the work of the famed psychotherapist Dr. Fritz Perls, founder of Gestalt Therapy. 

When you accept another person, you make it safe for them to change.  They take down their emotional walls, and stop seeing the argument as an ego battle of wills over who's right and who's wrong.  It really works.

But there's a catch.  You have to accept them for REAL.  That means REAL CHANGE by you.   Do you want to be a better parent enough to consider real change?  That is the question that only you can answer.   And would you spend real money to learn how to make those changes?  Our programs cost $1295 for ten full weeks.  Is learning how to love your children in a different way worth that kind of money to you, and to your child's future?  That's the question you must ask yourself. 

Send us an email if you want to know more, or call 1-877-688-6326.   You'll never regret choosing to !